that care givers may not be able to afford on an already stretched budget.
This past holiday season, in conjunction with Lokahi, Keiki O Ka Aina was able to give mentors and their children Christmas parties with gifts and also a special whale watching cruise on the Navatek.
They also participate in monthly group activities with other children of incarcerated parents which enables them to interact and be introduced to children who are going through the same feeling of loss and sadness that they may be experiencing. Although costly and not funded yet, being able to provide these group meetings/outings are a way to show these children that they are not alone in their struggles and that it is ok to talk about their parent's incarceration.
We have expanded our services to provide parenting support groups for the care givers during the visitation time each week where the children do HIPPY and Parent Participation Preschool with their incarcerated parent. Care givers meet together and talk about the various issues they may be struggling with and it gives our agency an opportunity to refer them to resources in the community to help them.
We also partner with various community groups to provide donations to these families. We have been able to deliver used furniture, toys, and clothes and even help to pay for small incidentals like children's school photos and field trips which can be a financial burden on some of our care givers. Some of the families that we work with are struggling to make ends meet with the responsibility of caring for another child, sometimes two, three or even four children.
National research has shown that mentoring a child of an incarcerated parent reverses the dramatic statistics that exist for these children. With a comprehensive approach including support for the parents, the care givers and the child we hope to not just reverse the statistics for the child, but to make the lives of all involved dramatically better, achieving long term positive effects for all concerned.